When man disobeyed God in the beginning, they didn't want to be the ones to take the blame, so the man blamed God for giving him the woman, the woman also blamed the serpent for deceiving her (Genesis 3:12-13). No one is ready to take any form of blame.
When two people are "partners in crime" and one is caught in the act, he won't want to suffer alone, so he blames the other for influencing him. Even siblings won't accept one another's faults, probably because of the punishment attached to it.
No one can accept a blame that should be shared, but this Jesus did. He took our shame, bore our pains, took our place in death, and gave us his place in life, a man who never sinned( Hebrews 4:15). God took the blame away from the man and laid it upon himself because he loved us(John 3:16).
This is the reason why only those that are saved are the ones with the ability to accept other people's blame for the sake of peace and love because the Holy Spirit dwells in them to teach them how to be and live like Christ Jesus.
A man once said, "blame others only as you will blame yourself first". If you can't take or share the blame, don't put it on someone else. It might seem impossible, but IF you will let the holy spirit take the lead and teach you in the way of Love.
Some even ask people to take the blame for them. If you really do love the fellow, you won't want to see him/her hurt at the expense of your comfort. And when you are involved in a fight with someone, don't expect him/her to say sorry first especially when it evolved from a state of argument. (Matthew 5:23-25).
Arguments happen when two people with different perspectives want to establish that their way of seeing things is the best. Do not try to prove a point when there is a counter except if that is your job( e.g a lawyer). Hear the person out, you might be saying the same thing (James 1:19). When you know someone offends you or you are the offender, settle it immediately. Confess your faults to one another rather than casting it (James 5:16) and let all things be done in Love. God bless His church in Jesus name. Amen! SHALOM!!!
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